How do others interpret you ?

Based upon surveys and research, I figured out how others interpret you by asking my family and friends 2 simple questions, what my best trait was and one thing that reminded them of me, I got all different answers not even one same. The factor it made me realize that everyone has a different version of best, for one of my friends said my best trait was that I was helpful while one thought that I was best at flirting ( for no god damned reason ) A research in America shows that people remember you from what they are more attracted too or what they are more used too and then they judge or interpret you on the basis of those, when you try putting this research in real life you might notice many similarities. After all the surveying I made a list of things that I thought were more me, and 90% of the things I listed were not the same as the responses I got on the survey, showing that everyone has a different image of me. the things they mentioned were definitely me but the things I listed out were also me so what does this mean, the bottom line is that everyone has a different viewpoint of you or how they judge you but that doesn’t change the way you define yourself as they judge you from what they like not what you do